Mind Reading & Other Delusions…
It is easy to become self-centered and delusional in our modern world, the incessant flood of fake news, bad news never lets up. When using computers, smart phones and text we are led to believe that we are the center of the universe, while all it really is a clever algorithm that follows us around. This sets up a whole series of false expectations, which constantly can get you/me/us into trouble, as other human beings have been given the same false expectations.
I CAN READ MINDS…
He deliberately cut me off! My friend never texted me back and I know why… They (co-workers) went to lunch without me and I know why… I know why I did not get the promotion I wanted… They do not know the real truth…
Everyone can find a reason to be offended on a steady basis. What causes you to be offended? Do you have the false belief that you have the ability to ‘read minds’? This false belief allows you interpret these otherwise normal events and actions according to your belief ‘I can read minds’. Any event can be taken as a personal affront, or as a slap in the face.
Think about it, can anyone read your mind? Your wishful thinking that you know what is going on is based upon the fear of knowing what other people think. Why not ask them, and find out the truth or is that too scary.
I AM THE CENTRE OF THE UNIVERSE
The Internet (logarithms) tells me I am the center of the universe and the world is just waiting for me (many parents unfortunately confirm this to their children). It is no surprise to believe the world revolves around you. After all, you have been at the very center of every experience you have ever had. You are the star of your own movie. The script was written just for you. You know how you want it to unfold. You even know how you want it to end.
Unfortunately, everyone has the same script in mind, being the lead role. Maybe you forgot to give your script to everyone else. Sadly, and frustratingly, the result is that other people are unaware of the role they are supposed to play. Then, when they screw up their lines, or fail to fall in love with you or don’t give you a promotion, your movie is ruined.
When you get to current reality and then write your script based upon the life you wish to create, you will discover it is for you to write, act in and to do the work necessary to create it. There is no magic pill, or incredible moment when you will ‘just know’. What there is, is the opportunity to create the life you want. It takes a lifetime to create and live in it.
IT’S THE END!
Disaster thinking; it is only going to get worse, I know that is true – fast forwarding everything to its worst possible outcome and being pleasantly surprised when the result is just a bit better than utter disaster. Wrestling with events that aren’t even remotely likely to happen, allows me to feel sorry for myself, getting myself into a pity poor me frame. My sunburn is going to be skin cancer. I lost my credit card and now it’s in the hands of scam artist and l will lose my identity.
What you focus upon you create, we are all creating all of the time. Many people find this hard to accept because often they/we do not like the result. Our life is our result and until we accept that we create results we have given our power away to chaos. Focus upon what you want to create and if you don’t know or are not sure sign up for the next lifenergi workshop.
Always show up Geoffrey